So many times I have let someone collapse my foundation and shatter my structures, only to hear that it was something that they needed for them or something they're sorry for doing. But they were only ever sorry after seeing my pain. My hurt! Sucks when the sun collides with your world and leaves turmoil in its wake... LIFE continues. Worst part about it all? I have to be the bigger person and forgive. I have to look people in their eyes and pretend that I'm okay and that I have let go of the situation!